I'm still working on getting over the fear of the what-ifs and the possibility of people passing judgement on my decisions. I'm not sure if you're anything like me, but if you are, feeling like that can suck. If someone else were to tell me they felt that way, I'd tell them not to care. Much easier said than done. I'm working on it.
I'm consciously working on not caring about others opinions or judgements of me. If you are like me, I hope you are too.
I've realized I don't have to explain myself. I do not owe anyone anything and that is a fantastic truth.